Jesus the Gentle...

I, therefore, the prisoner of the Lord, beseech you to walk worthy of the calling with which you were called, with al lowliness and gentleness, with long suffering bearing with one another in love endeavoring to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.--Ephesians 4:1-2 

It was noted in the previous study that the first three chapters of Ephesians were about doctrine and the last three about duty...or the first three describe our position in Christ and the last three our practice.  Paul begins Chapter 4 of Ephesians by beseeching us to walk worthy of the calling with which we were called.  Here in verse two and three he enumerates the 5 characteristics of the worthy walk...with the goal being endeavoring to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.  That is the goal...unity.  The center of Christian unity is in the heart.   It is not in a set of rules...it is not outward.  In verse 2 Paul gives us 5 attitudes of the heart which bring about peace in the body and bind believers together.

Meekness or gentleness is the second characteristic of the worthy walk. The first step, humility (talked about here) is the foundational characteristic of the worthy walk and encompasses the others.  Without a lowliness of spirit there would be no meekness.  Meekness or gentleness is a mildness of disposition, a graciousness of spirit. Proverbs 16:28 tells us that he who is slow to anger is better than the mighty and he who rules his spirit, than he who captures a city.  In fact, a man who does not rule his spirit is likened  to a city broken down without walls. 

In the world meekness is despised and is very often associated with weakness.  Meekness, however, is the opposite of weakness...it is power that is under the control of the Spirit of God.  Jesus describes Himself in Matthew 11 as gentle and lowly in heart... a place where our soul can find rest.  He exemplified meekness perfectly throughout His earthly ministry.  He was never selfishly ambition but always was about the will of His Father in Heaven.  Jesus was a Servant Leader.  Mark tells us that the Son of Man did not come to be served but to serve and to give His life as a ransom for many.  The path to greatness in the world is through aggression, pride and putting oneself forward, but Jesus, the greatest Man that ever lived walked the path of humility and gentleness.  This is how we, who are His followers, are to walk.  

Meekness is also not cowardice.  At His crucifixion, Jesus showed meekness in the face of unjust suffering. He could have destroyed those who opposed Him with a word, but instead, for the joy that was set before Him (us) He humbled Himself and became obedient to the point of death, even the death of the cross.   He willing suffered insult, injury and death to deliver us from eternal damnation.  He set His face like flint and suffered and endured all of it for our sake.   To offenses against Himself, Jesus was silent...to religious hypocrisy, lies and lack of truth, He responded  firmly and without equivocation.  Read the following verse from 1 Peter 2 and see the pattern Christ has left behind for us to follow.  

For to this you were called, because Christ also suffered for us, leaving us an example, that you should follow His steps:

“Who committed no sin, Nor was deceit found in His mouth”;

who, when He was reviled, did not revile in return; when He suffered, He did not threaten, but committed Himself to Him who judges righteously;

Jesus committed Himself to His Father's sovereign care in all things.  We are to do the same...we died with Him and our life is now hidden with Christ in God.  It is no longer we who live, but Christ who lives in us.  A person who has died to self has neither thought nor worry for himself.  He lives for God...He knows his life is not about him but about doing the will of His Father in Heaven.  A meek person steps aside and allows his God to work even in offenses and perhaps, especially in offenses against him.   A meek person is grateful for what his God has done and lives with a thankful servant's heart of love and compassion toward those around him. 

Beloved, we are more than conquerors through God who loves us.  There is nothing that can separate us from His love.  Like Jesus, we can set our faces like flint and follow in His steps, because He is our Rock and our Defense.... He will not allow us to be moved.  We can put off offenses against us and lean on our Beloved, depending on both His strength and protection because we know He cares for us and will guide us continually. The worst the world can throw at us is truly the best thing that can happen to us here on earth. (death)  

I end with one of my favorite quotes about gentleness from John MacArthur...in context he is referring to the verse from Philippians 4 that tells us to let our gentleness be made known to all men.

Gentleness: This means learning to accept less than you might think you are due.  Let your gentleness ....we can replace this word with the following:  Let your contentment, forbearing spirit, sweet reasonableness, bigheartedness, good will...bending beyond what is expected to grant them good, magnanimity, charity toward the faults of others, mercy toward failures of others, not being personally offended by the faults of others..be known to all men. It is the kind of gentleness that can submit to injustice, disgrace, mistreatment, without hatred, without malice, without retaliation, without vengeance.

The best way to look at it...it is the graciousness of humility which basically says you may have mistreated me, you may have misjudged me, you may have misrepresented me, you may have not given me what I deserve or given me what I don’t deserve, you may have ruined my reputation with some, acted in hostility towards me, I may be the recipient of your inequity, injustice, and mistreatment but I humbly, graciously accept it...Christ still reaches out in love...

And they overcame him by the blood of the Lamb and by the word of their testimony, and they did not love their lives to the death.--Revelation 12:11

"Blessed are the gentle,(meek) for they shall inherit the earth" (Matthew 5:5).

Jesus from Isaiah 53

Who has believed our report?
And to whom has the arm of the Lord been revealed?
For He shall grow up before Him as a tender plant,
And as a root out of dry ground.
He has no form or comeliness;
And when we see Him,
There is no beauty that we should desire Him.
He is despised and rejected by men,
A Man of sorrows and acquainted with grief.
And we hid, as it were, our faces from Him;
He was despised, and we did not esteem Him.

Surely He has borne our griefs
And carried our sorrows;
Yet we esteemed Him stricken,
Smitten by God, and afflicted.
But He was wounded for our transgressions,
He was bruised for our iniquities;
The chastisement for our peace was upon Him,
And by His stripes we are healed.
All we like sheep have gone astray;
We have turned, every one, to his own way;
And the Lord has laid on Him the iniquity of us all.

He was oppressed and He was afflicted,
Yet He opened not His mouth;
He was led as a lamb to the slaughter,
And as a sheep before its shearers is silent,
So He opened not His mouth.
He was taken from prison and from judgment,
And who will declare His generation?
For He was cut off from the land of the living;
For the transgressions of My people He was stricken.
And they made His grave with the wicked—
But with the rich at His death,
Because He had done no violence,
Nor was any deceit in His mouth.

Yet it pleased the Lord to bruise Him;
He has put Him to grief.
When You make His soul an offering for sin,
He shall see His seed, He shall prolong His days,
And the pleasure of the Lord shall prosper in His hand.
He shall see the labor of His soul, and be satisfied.
By His knowledge My righteous Servant shall justify many,
For He shall bear their iniquities.
Therefore I will divide Him a portion with the great,
And He shall divide the spoil with the strong,
Because He poured out His soul unto death,
And He was numbered with the transgressors,
And He bore the sin of many,
And made intercession for the transgressors.