“Then Laban said to Jacob, ‘Here is this heap and here is this pillar, which I have placed between you and me. This heap is a witness, and this pillar is a witness, that I will not pass beyond this heap to you, and you will not pass beyond this heap and this pillar to me, for harm. The God of Abraham, the God of Nahor, and the God of their father judge between us.’ And Jacob swore by the Fear of his father Isaac.” ~ Genesis 31:51-53, NKJV
Unsurprisingly, Jacob and Laban's relationship ended on rocky ground. Laban had used Jacob and dealt dishonestly with him. Jacob - while a tricky man himself - ultimately obtained great wealth from Laban because the Lord supported him. Having heard from the Lord that it was time to return to Canaan, and afraid of Laban's displeasure, Jacob left Haran secretly with his wives, children, servants, and goods. Laban pursued him and the two parties met in the mountains of Gilead. Here they set up stones, shared a meal, and struck a pact of mutual distrust. Neither Laban nor Jacob would pass the stones towards the other while intending harm. The idea was: “May the Lord watch between you and me when we are absent one from another.” (vs. 49) It's interesting, however, that when Jacob swears to uphold this covenant, that he swears by the "Fear of his father Isaac." The Lord is the God of Abraham and the God of Nahor (Abraham's brother), but He is also called the Fear of Isaac. Why? Isaac feared God, certainly, but I don't think that's what this term implies. There is also no indication that Isaac was a particularly warlike man. I don't think he needed to be. The fear of God guarded Isaac from his neighbors' ill-will. Fear of Him was synonymous with fear of Isaac, because God favored Isaac. Our God favors all His children. We will almost certainly experience harm at the hands of the world, facing tribulation and trial and suffering, but there is nothing we can do or the world can do that the Lord will not work together for good for us. Nor is there anyone who does us harm that will "get away with it." The Fear of Isaac awaits them for judgment in eternity, and what we might endure now is nothing compared to what they will have to endure. Because of the certainty of God's judgment, I don't have to hate my enemies. I don't have to wish vengeance on them. I have a Fear on my side that vastly outweighs the fear of evildoers, and instead of responding to my enemies with defensiveness I can show love instead. I can pray that they will find mercy and salvation. I can pray for the joy of receiving them as a dear brother or sister instead of as an enemy. When I trust in my fear-inspiring God, and have confidence in His love for me, I have great peace.
by Rebecca